Category: Dancing Engineer
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Developer Experience Unleashed
The Art of Creating Efficient Developer Environments [OMG OMG OMG OMG] This is my fourth book and the first time working with a publisher, Apress, which was an absolute pleasure. The eBook version is already available for rent or purchase and the physical book is available for pre-order. About This Book Explore the intricate world…
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Plies and Pages
The Book I Keep Rewriting (and Sometimes Forget to Read) There are books I’ve read twice. Sometimes. Maybe. But I have to wait long enough that I forget what happens. Otherwise? I get bored. Predictability is one of those itchy sweaters I can’t wait to tear off. If I can guess the next sentence, the…
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Dusty Dreams and Dollar Signs
What would you create if you didn’t have to worry about money? Me? Something for Burning Man. Obviously. I don’t know exactly what, but it would be wild, raw, and beautiful, and probably involve movement, sound, dust, and tears—maybe even all four. If money weren’t an obstacle, I’d pour myself into performance. Not just any…
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Beyond the Binary
Why Does It Matter? Because I Feel Seen. An old friend messaged me recently: “I was wondering if you wouldn’t mind sharing your [non-binary] journey with me so I can learn more.” It isn’t the first time someone’s asked. Sometimes it’s strangers, sometimes it’s people I love, and the question often boils down to: Why…
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One Page at a Time
The World is a Book? Sure. But I Might Be on a Different Chapter Right Now. If the world were a book, and if the act of travel were equivalent to flipping pages, then yeah, I guess if you live and die in the same town, maybe you’ve only read a page. Or a paragraph.…
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Would You Like to Be Immortal?
I mean, eh? I’ve seen the vampire movies and read the books — growing old is HARD. And, frankly, yeah, I get it. Immortality is seductive. There’s something about the idea of having unlimited time that makes your brain go, “Ah, finally, maybe then I’ll get through my to-do list.” But also… have you seen…
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If I Won the Lottery
What would I do if I won the lottery? Pay off debts, open savings accounts for the kids, hire an investor, and travel the world. But today, survival feels like its own kind of jackpot — showing up, even when the fear hums under everything. Maybe that’s the real prize: courage, chipped out one small…
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Exercise and Healthy Eating: The Ultimate Acts of Self-Love
Hey there, health warriors! Ready to dive into the juicy world of self-compassion through exercise and healthy eating? Buckle up, because we’re about to embark on a pun-filled journey to a happier, healthier you! This is something I’ve been working on in particular because I used to see the acts of self compassion and self…
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Where Am I Now?
For a while there I was writing every single day. Until I stopped. Let’s see what happens now. I am, in many ways, entirely different from where I was when I started blogging. I’ve come out of the closet. I’ve had kids. I’ve moved overseas and returned. I retired from dance. But still danced. I…
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Defining Expansion & Contraction
I’ve been thinking a lot about Expansion and Contraction lately and realized that it’s not about growth versus stagnation. It’s about possibility—what you have the capacity to handle in any given moment. When you’re in a state of contraction, you can care ONLY for yourself. Your energy is limited, and you’re just trying to meet…
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भारत की ओर प्रस्थान
(“I’m headed to India!” in Hindi ^)
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‘Excited much?’
Gather ’round, kids, it’s time for a language lesson.