Tag: grace
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What Page Is That?
Lately I keep running into the same fork in the road, over and over again. Is this a moment to push myself, or is this a moment to let myself relax? If there were clear rules, I’d love that. A checklist. A decision tree. A flashing sign that says, “Apply effort here” or “Stand down,…
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Where Is The User Manual?
I keep circling this question: am I actually bad at giving myself grace, or am I just bad at giving myself grace when I don’t understand what’s wrong? When the cause is obvious, I’m pretty generous. If I’m sick, exhausted, grieving, overwhelmed by something concrete, I can say, “Of course today is harder. Be gentle.”…