Tag: lgbtq

  • When Is It Time to Flee?

    When Is It Time to Flee?

    I don’t mean a casual move to another city, I mean actually wrestling with what safety, identity, belonging, and political reality feel like right now. I’m here in California, feeling both grateful and battered. Grateful for the community and relative sanctuary. Battered because it feels like every other week something surfaces that reminds me how…

  • Beyond the Binary

    Beyond the Binary

    Why Does It Matter? Because I Feel Seen. An old friend messaged me recently: “I was wondering if you wouldn’t mind sharing your [non-binary] journey with me so I can learn more.” It isn’t the first time someone’s asked. Sometimes it’s strangers, sometimes it’s people I love, and the question often boils down to: Why…