Tag: writing
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Life, the Universe, and Everything
(And Other Casual Topics) Okay, so here’s the deal: I don’t have it all figured out. Not even close. But lately, I’ve been collecting these little truths — scraps of wisdom, hard-earned lessons, things I’ve tripped over and gone, “Ohhh… that’s what that means.” And the more I gather them, the more I realize they’re…
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Let’s Teach ‘How to People’
What if school actually taught us how to be good people? Because yes, sure, algebra and the mitochondria and sentence diagramming—fine, I get it, there’s a place for that, but you know what would’ve helped me way more in life? Knowing how to deal with a panic attack. Or how to file taxes. Or how…
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We’re Not Machines, Rain
Some days you wake up and you’re like yes, today is the day I conquer the world. You’ve got your to-do list, your coffee, your playlist, and for a few glorious hours, you’re unstoppable. And then… BOOM. It’s like someone pulled the plug. Suddenly you’re scrolling through videos of raccoons washing grapes or reorganizing your sock…
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We Need to Talk
So apparently that post I made the other day — the one about being nervous, about having my kids here this summer for the first time, about shifting from my worker-brain to my parent-brain and wondering if I was going to screw it all up — hit home for some people. Especially younger folks. People…
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Well, Actually…
Can trust be regained? My knee-jerk answer is no. Just—no. Like a slammed door or a dropped vase or a delete key hit too hard. Something cracked, shattered, glitched, deleted. You don’t unshatter. You don’t uncrack. You just are now. With a line through the middle of you. Except then my brain, that sneaky bastard,…
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Chaos, Creativity, and the Lofi Loop
Can creativity be taught? Absolutely. It can be fostered and developed just like any other skill. But that doesn’t mean it always feels easy. But today? I don’t wanna do the work. Bleh. But honestly, I never want to go into work, so that tracks. My brain is bouncing between so many thoughts – U,…
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Growth Through Challenge
What does it mean to get out of one’s comfort zone? This question has been haunting me lately. It popped up yesterday, and here it is again today. Did I answer it wrong? Or is this some kind of glitch? Maybe there are only forty curious minds questions, and now I’ll be stuck with this…
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Developer Experience Unleashed
The Art of Creating Efficient Developer Environments [OMG OMG OMG OMG] This is my fourth book and the first time working with a publisher, Apress, which was an absolute pleasure. The eBook version is already available for rent or purchase and the physical book is available for pre-order. About This Book Explore the intricate world…
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Where Am I Now?
For a while there I was writing every single day. Until I stopped. Let’s see what happens now. I am, in many ways, entirely different from where I was when I started blogging. I’ve come out of the closet. I’ve had kids. I’ve moved overseas and returned. I retired from dance. But still danced. I…
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Defining Expansion & Contraction
I’ve been thinking a lot about Expansion and Contraction lately and realized that it’s not about growth versus stagnation. It’s about possibility—what you have the capacity to handle in any given moment. When you’re in a state of contraction, you can care ONLY for yourself. Your energy is limited, and you’re just trying to meet…
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The DevOps Revolution
Transforming Software Delivery and Collaboration Discover the transformative power of DevOps in “The DevOps Revolution: Transforming Software Delivery and Collaboration.” This comprehensive guide delves deep into the principles, practices, and culture that drive the success of DevOps, a movement that has reshaped the world of software development. Learn how collaboration, automation, and continuous processes like…
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Navigating the Tech World
A Comprehensive Guide to Finding, Landing, and Thriving in Your Tech Job Are you passionate about technology and seeking a fulfilling career in the tech industry? Whether you’re a recent graduate, a professional transitioning into tech, or an experienced tech worker looking for your next opportunity, “Navigating the Tech World: A Comprehensive Guide to Finding,…